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Camellia Bloom's avatar

ugh i swear you're my favorite author here on substack, your posts are always relatable 🫢🏻 also, I love number 6 so much! Just letting experience be experience, it doesn't always have to be a lesson or something meaningful, thank you for the reminder!

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milk and cookies's avatar

thank you so much for being here 🀎

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wander, breathe & flow's avatar

This was so beautifully written. From my own experience, much of the inner exploration starts with the outside exploration. Living in different countries has really opened my eyes to different perspectives and to exploring my inner self. Questioning my way of living, ideas that we grow up with. But there are so many ways to start the journey of inner exploration! 😊

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milk and cookies's avatar

i can totally relate with you on living in different countries but yes nothing like looking inwards and growing πŸ₯Ή

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Lisa Di Capua's avatar

This is wonderful - a novel concept to just stop, be ourselves, be with ourselves, discover ourselves. We are so conditioned by our external world that it's easy to lose sight of what makes each of us so unique and beautiful. To give ourselves "permission" to experience who we are without interruption and outside pressure is such a lovely freedom. Thank you for this!

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milk and cookies's avatar

internal freedom is truly the biggest form of freedom… thank you for being here!

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Anita Darcel Taylor's avatar

Internal exploration is what I learned through years of jungian therapy. I grew and continue to grow more than I could comprehend possible. There was so much more to me than what I claimed and there remains so much learning and growing and experimenting possible. My world has opened wide.

I am a traveler. When money permits I'll hit the skies in search of the next museum, cuisine, and street scene. My most interesting travel, however, is within.

Thank you for posting this essay. It validates the work I've done and continue to do.

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Saria's avatar

This is absolutely lovely! The wonder in the tone and the whimsy in the approach. What if we did explore ourselves more? What if we did approach ourselves with and open mind and no pre-determined expectations? This speaks to me do much, as this is the trail my mind walks down. We are kindred spirits, you and I.

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milk and cookies's avatar

reading your comment makes me so happy, thank you for being here 🀎

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Kristi D's avatar

Wowowowow!! Exploratory missions commence!

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milk and cookies's avatar

love this for you!

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Casabel Blog's avatar

What a wonderful post, will be thinking about this one for a while!

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milk and cookies's avatar

thank you for reading 🀎

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Julia Skinner's avatar

Another thoughtful piece that I'm going to have to process. This will take more time! Thank you

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milk and cookies's avatar

thank you for reading 🀎

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Ana's avatar

I loved reading this piece. Thank you πŸ₯° it’s what I needed to read right now.

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guidindlight's avatar

Loved your post

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Emma O'Neill's avatar

I absolutely love everything about this! πŸ’–

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ThePageTurnerWrites's avatar

I love this post so much I took screenshots just so that I can go back and reread it again! I found this post when I needed it the most

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Abrielle's avatar

This is everything I’ve been pondering, feeling, TRYING, & mingling with summarized beautifully and intentionally. THANK YOU for creating, being you, sharing with the world, making it onto my feed🩷

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Marwa's avatar

I liked the point "collect experiences for the sake of experiencing them" most. When I was younger my mother always asked me what I learnt from activities/clubs/events; it was tiring to think that everything had to have a profound lesson rather then just wanting to try something new.

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milk and cookies's avatar

trying something new shouldn’t have to have a purpose… i am so glad to have you here 🀎

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Daniela Guevara's avatar

quΓ© hermoso escrito!!! gracias gracias GRACIAS

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milk and cookies's avatar

thank you πŸ₯Ή

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Gabriela GΓ³mez's avatar

This made my day!

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milk and cookies's avatar

thank you!

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