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Shirley🌻's avatar

wow ..it was like a gift to the exact situation I'm going trough. bless you

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LIV.'s avatar

Loved this read. This line hit me hard - to just remember what it’s like to sit in your own presence without turning it into a project.

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Casabel Blog's avatar

So well written in that you are able to articulate feelings and emotions into words! You are such a gifted writer!

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Brown Girl Debugging's avatar

I feel so much better after reading this. I feel seen and understood. Thank you so much

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Mafer's avatar

This has been an amazing read. In a world where we have to perform every single thing, even the things we start to do with a heartfelt purpose can end up feeling like a task. I also find it comforting to know we all have been taught to fear uncertainty, but it’s something we need to embrace to be able to navigate life with the sustainable courage you mention. Thank you 💜.

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Chelton Nunes Júnior's avatar

the courage to exist in the (unknown) present, even when, repeating the past responses seems convenient. thank you for this piece. it's good to remember that we, as humans, all navigate, together, threads with the same themes, always. it's good to remember someone will always fill the blank when I myself lack the words. thank you.

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Mitchel Wangui's avatar

so beautifully written.

That moment, you have no idea of what you are doing. You wonder whether you are contented with your current mundane life or if you had enough support you couldnt have been there. You start grieving the future you thought you would have had. Indeed everything lacks clarity. It is just a continuation of different chapters of life.

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Nonnie's avatar

Amazing read, going thru this right now in life after loosing my 14 year old granddaughter. Having to witness this turmoil in my daughter, who lost her only child. We'll written, thank you for sharing as it is hard to articulate feelings and emotions in our lives right now.

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Julia Skinner's avatar

I'm trying hard to 'show up' every day & to celebrate it. Thanks for ticking my card with this essay.

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Stefanie Sösemann's avatar

Printed out and glued in my journal. Yout words are medicine, thank you

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Esmeree Skye's avatar

'engagement this feels so expensive.' so accurate.

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Sangey Tsomu's avatar

❤️

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orionglass's avatar

all of my frustrations, summed up. thank you. and you're right, maybe growth isn't something continuous or something that should be proactively done, but an existential thing that is 'just there'?

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Talks With T's avatar

Beautiful piece!

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Megan's avatar

This resonates so so much! Thank you for sharing💕

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Emi's avatar

This resonated with me so deeply. Felt like a hug. Thank you.

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